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Viewing Dating Tips: Pursuing Multiple WomenDating Tips: Pursuing Multiple Women
By Julian Foxx
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It's my guess that most of the guys reading don't need much convincing that pursuing multiple romantic entanglements is the way to go. However, I think it's very important to examine the reasons why, as it will at the very least justify our behavior. It's my guess that most of the guys reading don't need much convincing that pursuing multiple romantic entanglements is definitely the way to go. However, I think it's very important for us to examine the reasons why, as it will at the very least justify our behavior. And for those guys looking to settle down with that special someone it's even more important for you to understand and follow the guidelines in this article. If you are going after lots of girls, one or two rejections are no big deal. If I am actively pursuing ten girls at the same time and two of them flake, I have a wonderful place to refocus my attention: eight other lovely prospects. In fact, if you view your failures as learning experiences, then you can take whatever you may have learned from the two flakes and instantly apply those lessons to subsequent interactions. In essence, failure can become exciting and fun! (Although clearly it should never be your goal) There's an old joke that always stuck with me: How do you get to Carnegie Hall? Practice! Practice makes perfect. You don't come out of the womb with great seduction skills. It is comprised of many learnable skill sets and therefore takes a certain amount of dedication. The more women you are pursuing, the more opportunities you have to make connections between situations and occasionally have a revelation or two. Back when I was a wee babe I played the piano and made sure I had an hour daily to drill the scales. Now I set aside an hour or two a day to text and make phone calls to my prospects. And in the evenings, I'm out with many of them 'practicing' in person. The point is, the more women you are actively pursuing, the more practice you are getting and the faster you will develop. Building on practice is this key idea: Having multiple girls in your sights encourages you to experiment and take risks with them. I cannot overemphasize how essential this idea is. Knowing that we have 'backups' in place can fuel us to take risks on which we would normally hesitate. We can use this newfound freedom to try out new techniques. We can actually use it to go with our impulses instead of blocking them. All of the most important discoveries and breakthroughs I've made have been a direct result of this concept. You can read about pickup and think about pickup as much as you want but if you're not actually out there taking chances with it, you are not going to improve at all. And if all you're thinking about is 'your main squeeze', it's going to be impossible to apply this vital perspective. And perhaps the most important reason for having multiple prospects is this: your behavior and your energy will change for the better without even thinking about it. If you really think about it, we are strategically placing ourselves in the same mindset that beautiful women have. These kinds of ladies have enough guys after them that they can't even stay organized and flake by default much of the time. This is one of the reasons I purposely schedule many of my 'dates' with different women for the same evening. (A technique I discuss more in 'No Flakes'). Now the situation is flipped and I have to cancel with them. Your aura itself is different; it is free (or freer) of any hint of desperation or neediness. The more prospects you have on your plate, the less anxiety you will experience over any one of them. And as women are typically more intuitive than men are, they will most certainly notice this. In other words, the more women I am gaming, the better my success rate is with them. So to the man who says, 'No, I just want to find the one girl for me!' I say in response: You'll have a much better chance of finding her if you're exploring multiple options, and she will probably be much more receptive to you because of the positive changes in your behavior as a result of having those options. Have fun, Julian Foxx About the Author: Julian Foxx is considered by many to be the fastest rising star in the pickup artist and dating community. His jaw dropping effectiveness with women is matched only by his ability to innovate powerful new techniques, giving their user a ridiculously unfair advantage. Check out JulianFoxx.com and read Julian's thoughts on David Deangelo at http://www.julianfoxx.com/david-deangelo. Article Source: 1st Rate Articles - http://1stRateArticles.com |
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