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The Last Word: How to Write an Obituary for a Loved One

When loved ones pass away, an obituary is usually the last thing that will be publicly written about them. The obituary offers the reader a chance to remember their characters, reflect on their departures, and mourn with those left behind.

By Alyssa Thiessen

When loved ones pass away, an obituary is usually the last thing that will be publicly written about them. Their individual obituaries serve not only as announcements of their deaths, but also as the final words on their lives. The obituary offers the reader a chance to remember their characters, reflect on their departures, and mourn with those left behind.

Format

An obituary is always in written form, and it is often published in a local newspaper. It may also be printed in the memorial program. The length can vary significantly, depending on the wishes of the family and the requirements of the publication in which it is appearing. Whatever the length of the piece, there are a number of standard components that should be included.

Components

A standard obituary has four components, the order of which sometimes varies, depending on the style of the writer.

The first of these components is the announcement of the deceased's passing. This announcement will include the individual's full name and date of death. It may also, but not necessarily, include his or her age and cause of death.

The next component contains meaningful details surrounding the life of the loved one. These details may include education, hobbies, important friendships or relationships, and significant milestones (such as graduations, baptisms, marriages, births, or other important events). Religious, spiritual, or personal convictions of the departed may also be discussed.

The third component offers a brief listing of relatives who have predeceased or survived the deceased. Most frequently included are parents, spouses, siblings, children, and grandchildren. Sometimes significant extended family, such as grandparents, in-laws, or cousins, may be mentioned as well.

The final component of an obituary offers details as to when and where the funeral or burial will take place. Whether it is a ceremony, a service, or a celebration of life, the details regarding date, location, time, and the public or private nature of the event should be clear and concise. This component sometimes ends with information regarding where donations can be made in honor of the deceased, as an alternative to flowers.

Voice

An obituary is usually written in third-person using a formal voice. The most common intent is to convey both sadness and sentimental remembrances. Personal details such as loving nicknames, unusual hobbies, or characteristic slogans may also be given. Whatever the length, tone, and specific information may be, an obituary is well written when it gently offers the reader a bittersweet sense of closure.

About the Author:

Alyssa Thiessen is an accomplished high school teacher and an independent writer. She holds a Bachelor of Arts with a major in English and a minor in History and a Bachelor of Education, specializing in Senior Years English and History. To learn more about her teaching and writing, visit www.alyssathiessen.com. Article Source: 1st Rate Articles - http://1stRateArticles.com

Article added 08/24/07, last revised 11/07/07.

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